This difference is basic. You are not angry with someone. You are simply angry, and the anger is released into the cosmos. You are not hateful towards anyone. If hate comes, you are simply hateful and the hate is thrown out. In meditation, emotions are not addressed. They are unaddressed. They move into the cosmos, and the cosmos purifies everything.
It is just like a dirty river falling into the ocean: the ocean will purify it. Whenever your anger, your hate, your sexuality moves into the cosmos, into the ocean – it purifies it. If a dirty river falls into another river, then the other river also becomes dirty. When you are angry with someone, you are throwing your dirt at him. Then he will also throw his at you and this will become a mutual dirtying process.
In meditation, you are throwing yourself into the cosmos to be purified. All the energy that you throw is purified in the cosmos. The cosmos is so vast and so great an ocean, you cannot make it dirty. In meditation, we are not related with persons. In meditation, we are related directly to the cosmos.
The Supreme Doctrine, Talk #5, Courtesy: Osho International Foundation, www.osho.com